Every now and then I get an email from someone saying they are scared to try Online Dating. They are concerned that they’ll have to compete with 1000s of other singles and won’t stand a chance. Low self esteem stops them from getting the success they want.
It’s time to stop this limiting belief! This isn’t a competition that you have to try and “win” in order to get someone’s interest. Your just need to realise that it’s not about “winning” but “exploring.” It’s all down to your attitude. You must learn to like yourself and not concentrate of all of the things that aren’t happy about yourself. After all, if you can’t love yourself then how will anyone else?
Confidence is sexy but arrogance or coldness just aren’t! There’s a big difference between them. You need to be able to communicate so work out what you have to offer! You aren’t competing with everyone else because everyone brings something different to the table.
Nobody wants to be a prize to be won. Nobody want to be a trophy. So go out there and have fun!
James Preece Dating Coach www.onlinedatingclinic.com
