Here’s an interesting blog for you.
Some of my dating clients tell me that they find it hard to make time for online dating in their busy lives. They work all day and are too tired in the evenings to do anything proactive.
As a Dating Expert, I can see how it might seem time consuming. It takes a while to search for people you like the look of, compose witty messages and keep the banter going.
But it really doesn’t have to be. The object of the game is to get their attention quickly and then arrange a meeting while the interest is there. You don’t have to write long essays back and forth for weeks. The first message only needs to be a few lines long – just enough to get them intrigued. After a couple of replies, speak on the phone for ten minutes and then arrange your first date. Endless messages only build up unrealistic expectations and prevent you from ever meeting up.
Here’s a quick tip which will help you find time for dating….turn off your television! It’s the biggest time waster there is and it’ s main function is a “partner replacement.” Most people spend all their time either staring at it or looking forward to seeing it again.
Believe it or not, studies have shown that watching too much television can actually triple your urge for material things. Just think how many adverts you watch, consciously and unconsciously. On top of this, every hour of your day you watch makes you 5% unhappier!
You only need to spend about 20 minutes a day to make online dating work. If you knew it would guarantee some fantastic dates, would you be able to find time to do it then? Picture the end result before you start and you’ll soon be able to fit it into your busy lifestyle.
If you need help with dating then get in touch now as I’d love to help you.
James Preece – The Dating Guru